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Anonymous asked: Hey, I've been too-ing and fro-ing as to whether I have a blood fetish. I've always found blood extremely attractive and got into self harm without fully realising I was doing it to get the satisfaction of seeing blood. Me and my boyfriend have discussed all of this together, and we want to start getting into blood play, so I was wondering if you have any advice or tips for beginners? I'm not looking for much, just simply to get my fix really.. Thanks :)

Hi Anon,

Certainly, I’ll be happy to help you what I can. I do better answering specific questions than talking about generalities so please feel to ask further, more detailed questions but for now a handful of basic statements.

About period sex: assuming you and your BF are already “fluid bonded” i.e. are having sex, then basically there are no limits. I’ve done many many fun things while on my period including some which would be past the edge to many such as licking my lover’s cock clean after a hard and fun period fuck or letting him use my menstrual blood as a lube when we ass fuck when just a moment before he was in my bleeding vagina and then he used my period blood to ease the way, things like that.

Now, when it comes to “drawn blood” as in using knives, scalpels, IV needles, etc. to physically break the skin so that blood from blood vessels may font forth and yes both as a top and bottom as one who does to cutting/needling and one who likes to be cut/needled and am turned on by my partner’s blood and my own as well, weeellll, that is a different story.

If you don’t have specific medical training in a clinical setting i.e. nursing or medical school that taught you all the necessary precautions and basic techniques OR you receive training from someone in the lifestyle who’s an experienced bloodplayer and can share with you the knowledge they’ve earned over the years, then I’d say in the absence of formal or knowledgeable informal training then you need to leave the bloodplay in the realm of fantasy for now, until you can find someone in RL to teach you how to do bloodplay safely and sanely and with good technique so the risk of permanent damage will be minimized.

Make no mistake about this: if you break the skin by any device, you are doing something VERY dangerous no matter how experienced you are.

Please reply back with more specific questions and we’ll continue from there!

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This is a photo taken at a workshop on “fire flogging” where a very experienced and well-trained top using alcohol on a regular flogger sets it afire and then flogs a trusting bottom with it. Truth is is that this basically advanced stage magic much like conventional erotic fire play is, which I love doing both as a bottom and as a top, love the overt sensuality of it, and using a fire-flogger or fire-whip is just another variant of it but because of the very real inherent danger if one or both participants screw up and don’t follow the agreed upon protocols, that adds a certain element of increased awareness and deeper top and sub spaces respectively.

This is a photo taken at a workshop on “fire flogging” where a very experienced and well-trained top using alcohol on a regular flogger sets it afire and then flogs a trusting bottom with it.

Truth is is that this basically advanced stage magic much like conventional erotic fire play is, which I love doing both as a bottom and as a top, love the overt sensuality of it, and using a fire-flogger or fire-whip is just another variant of it but because of the very real inherent danger if one or both participants screw up and don’t follow the agreed upon protocols, that adds a certain element of increased awareness and deeper top and sub spaces respectively.

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I once attended a workshop on the ancient Asian art of “fire cupping” that’s been used in the East to “draw poisons and toxins out of the body” for millenia, had the leader of the workshop do a couple of fire cups, where they remove all the air out of the cup using live flame to create a vacuum within before pressing it onto the skin, on my breasts just to see what it was like. It was okay, no big one way or the other, but at least it was worth trying.

I once attended a workshop on the ancient Asian art of “fire cupping” that’s been used in the East to “draw poisons and toxins out of the body” for millenia, had the leader of the workshop do a couple of fire cups, where they remove all the air out of the cup using live flame to create a vacuum within before pressing it onto the skin, on my breasts just to see what it was like.

It was okay, no big one way or the other, but at least it was worth trying.

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Scrolling down and then this hits me, a “WOW!” photo that makes me smile! Oh, and P.S., of course they’re not a real mother and daughter, quite frankly I’d be a little bit more than a little bit disturbed if they were actually so, I just ignore the original premise and see them for what they are, two unrelated beautiful womyn in a lovers’ embrace shot with a lot of thought and talent that just, well, ya’know. motheranddaughterbeauty: sister bonding

Scrolling down and then this hits me, a “WOW!” photo that makes me smile!

Oh, and P.S., of course they’re not a real mother and daughter, quite frankly I’d be a little bit more than a little bit disturbed if they were actually so, I just ignore the original premise and see them for what they are, two unrelated beautiful womyn in a lovers’ embrace shot with a lot of thought and talent that just, well, ya’know.

motheranddaughterbeauty:

sister bonding

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